Narcissists cannot be “fixed” and, if you do not keep absolute distance, will ruin your life thoroughly. To believe that one can affect the narcissist’s wellbeing is malignant optimism, a manifestation of the rescue fantasies that are so common among co-dependents. Being positive is the best thing for you to do as you should also be in a better mindset. This will hopefully help you in not letting a narcissist’s behavior affect you as much. 2. Evaluate The Context. Try and find out the situation first. A narcissist is not always a narcissist because of their personality.
Jun 08, 2016 · In other words, avoid the temptation to feel sorry for your ex, and think through the repercussions of any decision you make. A few months ago we wrote about the six signs that show it might be time to move on from your narcissistic spouse. If you haven’t read it yet, do so now. And if you have, read it again.